Beach Walk 612 – Just Plain Pretty

Back on the beach!

To me, plain is the new pretty. I like people who can show up as they are, not always feeling pressured to put their best face forward. It gives dimension, complexity along with genuine authenticity. It’s so different from how things used to be “last century” when so many of us felt the imperative to be perfect, especially when it comes to appearance. So break out and be raw! See what happens.

Hawaiian word:
U’i: pretty, youthful, handsome

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Beach Walk 86 – Who Cares What Others Think?

Appearance part 2, looking inside out and outside in.

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I just love talking out loud about this topic as it reminds what I truly believe and builds my muscle to not care what others may think of me. That’s not to say I don’t love being loved, as I do! But there is this wonderful line between loving it without needing it.

Hawaiian words
Hana aloha: love magic

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Beach Walk 85 – The Appearance Game

I loved watching Tom Hanks on the Actor’s Studio the other night, talking about appearance among other things.

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Tom Hanks is often considered a very successful and beloved actor. The characters he’s introduced into our lives cover an incredible range. Listening to him explain both the very dry, mechanical process of casting a film along with his very loving embrace of every look, every style moved me to talk about this issue that just won’t go away.

It seems every new generation has issues with appearance, and regardless of where one fits on the various spectra from tall to short, thin to fat, ugly to pretty, it continues to undermine our self worth. It’s not the particular attributes themselves, but the value we attach to them that creates an issue I think. So what if you are [fat, pretty, hairy, sexy, old, thin, nerdy] it only matters if you there is a problem with that or if you think it is bad!

It’s definitely a big can of confusion, so I expect this topic could last all week!

The sunset and the scenery were beautiful tonight so I hope you enjoy that too.

Hawaiian words
Punikihi: a game

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