Beach Walk 530 – Happy Relationships

I’ve been practicing one little switch in my brain – it is so easy to point out what is wrong, and so much more effective to point out what is right, what makes me happy, what I want more of.

I think we grow up with the mistaken notion that other people are here to make us happy – but in reality, that is an individual job. The easiest way to get to that happiness, is to understand what makes us happy and then to be willing to speak up and ask for it!

Here’s my personal blog where I am sharing my writings from Bali:
In the Transition

Hawaiian Word:
Hauʻoli: happy

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  1. Great show, Rox! I agree 100% with today’s show ~ it’s only taken me 16 years with my husband to figure that one out!
    Malama Pono~

  2. Dear Roxanne,

    So, so important; especially with kids who do not necessarily know any alternative behaviors, and for anyone who simply has not realized that there is one.

    Love you.